Thursday, March 31, 2011

...and then there was the Party...

It started months ago with a time limit; no planning of the party until the week after Valentine's Day.  The planning began with the list of party games and deciding on the perfect fairy foods menu, and ended in a flourish with the final stage of any party planning, the party invite:

Come join us for a Fairy Good Time!
March 26 mark the date
It’s a party to celebrate
Ria Howard turning 8!
We’ll start at 2 and be done by 4
Come for snacks, crafts, and more!
 
There was the excited week of phone calls and emails of RSVPs.  There were the trips to Michaels and Joann's, to the grocery store, and to Target for those last-minute party items.  On several of these trips, a very excited little brother invited everyone, cashiers, customer service folk, and random strangers, to come to the party.  Then came the day...the big day....the Party Day for our little Princess Fairy.  Everyone was excited as we cleaned the house, set up tables, and got ready for the party.  
 


 
 
The guests were eagerly greeted at the door and "fairfied" with their own fairy headbands.  A scavenger hunt took place in the backyard with a flurry of little girls running across the yard, finding butterfly clips in various fairy houses hidden throughout.  Daddy had done his usual magic of writing up poems of clues for the fairy scavenger hunt:
 
 
Are you ready for some fun?  You have your team and the hunts begun.  This will be the first of clues that tell you all just what to do.  Listen now and look alive, for there are more clues that you must find, in total, five.  Each message you find, a little poem, will take to you a fairy home.  There are many kinds, here's a few, my dear, of different fairies found that you'll find near…

1. Stone Fairy
2. Garden Fairy
3. Evergreen Fairy
4. Willow Tree Fairy

These are the different fairy's homes you'll be looking for.  At each home you'll find a clue that will take you to the next home on your hunt.  Each member of your team will find their name and a butterfly clip along the way.  Just take the one butterfly clip for your team and move on to the next clue.  Don’t tell the other teams what clues you have already found!

1. Stone Fairy!  Look around in the yard, where this fairy lives is round and hard.  You'll find its home sitting on the ground, now go out back and look around.  Its near a pile of rocks, not far off, a power box.

2. Garden Fairy.  These are common in places where, there lots of plots and fresh dirt found there.  Look in the yard, you'll find a gate that will lead to you this fairies home and don’t be late!

3. Evergreen Fairy.  Evergreens are tall and wide, and these fairies help keep them green with pride.  Go and look for two tall trees, and then look behind them and in-between.  You'll find a fairy home and near you'll see the next clue for your team to read!

4. Willow Tree Fairy.  Willow trees grow really big, with help from this fairy among it's twigs.  Look out front, you'll find it there, and treat fairy's home with care.

5. You've done it all and found the clues so soon you'll know what you must do.  These fairies tend to run away, whenever kids come up to play.  But do not worry because each of you, get your own fairy home, its true!  Dress it up, and take it home, and maybe one day a fairy will make it, its own!  Head back inside and see it with your own eyes…
 
 
At the conclusion of the hunt, everyone came inside to find their very own fairy houses to be decorated.  Blissful moments of quiet creativity followed as paints and accessories took the fairy houses from standard pieces of wood to beautiful, individual expressions of each little girl's (and one little boy's!) own fairy magic.  
 
 
 
 
There were snacks, and cupcakes, and presents.  
 

 
 
And in the end, there was one very happy, blessed, little girl, who finished the evening with a few close friends enjoying her new gifts.   
 

Wednesday, March 30, 2011

Eight is Great


Birthdays at our house are cause for great celebration.  I love the mixing of traditions from Joe's family and mine to pass on fun days for our kiddos.  We start each birthday with a lavish breakfast in bed of the celebrated person's choosing (a time-honored Mommy family tradition).  Beanie decided she wanted everything for the day to be blue; breakfast was blueberry waffles, blueberry bagel with blueberry cream cheese, blue moon milkshake (which we actually forgot - oops!), and blueberry toaster strudel.  She was so dang excited about her birthday that she was up around 5:30 a.m. shaking with excitement.  The celebration of her 8th year started out excellent, lying in our bed, watching movies and eating her blueness breakfast. 

She then got to open her first gift of the day and later opened her card from Mamaw with a gift she had been very excited about (a definite Daddy family tradition - getting things people want and LOVE!!!) while Skyping; all before 8 a.m. 

 She played hooky from school (a definite Mommy-side tradition!) and came with me to class.  While she was not quite too excited about listening to medical terminology, she did have a great time hidden away behind chairs coloring and drawing during the hour.  The students all loved having her in there and she got a few birthday wishes.  We had a great birthday lunch together on our drive home from school.

She had a few phone calls from family members wishing her Happy B-day.

The favorite dinner of choice is a tradition from both families, one loved by all of us!  The blueness continued with blue macaroni and cheese, veggie hot dogs, and blue milk. 
A new tradition was started this year thanks to Mommy forgetting to wrap presents and Daddy being ever so clever and quick thinking; the Birthday Present Game Show!  With numbers on the door, the game show contestant, i.e. the Birthday Princess, got to pick what pile of presents to see behind Door Number 1, Door Number 2, and Door Number 3.  She was allowed one pick of her own, one pick from the audience members, and one pick from the numbers behind the back.  We all had great fun as Daddy hosted the game and the Birthday Princess was all giggles picking her doors. 














The day ended with some yummy cake with blue icing and great big smiles from the little princess.


Happy Eighth Birthday Beanie!!!!

Monday, March 28, 2011

The Start of the Kids' Spring Break...

More blogs coming from this past week, but here is a little something to get the kids' spring break off to a good start:


Sunday, March 20, 2011

Flu is a Great Way to Spend Spring Break

I was sick all week.  I spent the time:
: grading papers
: watching lectures on the KKK in WI, Pacific theater of WWII, and the Great Depression economic situation compared to today's economic situation.  Love me some PBS.
:eating crunchy things to scratch my throat.
:organizing lectures
:enjoying (?) the lack of responsibility for anything save getting healthy
:drinking coffee to stave off chills then throwing windows open to cool fevers
:staring at birds out of said window, dreaming of new bird feeders and new bird baths and new bird houses for the upcoming spring
:snuggling the two little ones as they came into and out of sickness with me (though much quicker and in a much better attitude than I).
:wishing i had known i was going to be sick so I could have made a preemptive run to the library for some good reads
:being incredibly thankful my husband is as awesome as he is and kept everything moving along while I was in bed....just relaxing of course:)

Thursday, March 17, 2011

Being Two

There are quite a few things you can get away with when you are two; walking around with nothing but your mudboots on:





Feeding your baby magnetic food:





Bending over and licking snow piled up in the backyard:




and curling up for a rest near the fireplace once the snow fun is done:




There is one thing you cannot quite away with when you are two though, and that is hitting the Smoosh and then the mommy, and then screaming No to everyone.  That is a definite time out.


Tuesday, March 15, 2011

Typical Family?

We had our favorite pet chicken, Sunny, inside the other morning before breakfast to enjoy some special treats before heading out with a friend to have her x-ray taken.





The boys thought it would be a good time to get some cradling practice in for lacrosse before hammering Green Day songs out on the piano...
















...and I started a "science" experiment for Smoosh to demonstrate why he should flush toilet paper, not napkins, down the toilet.  The bowls were our toilets and we "flushed" them every once in awhile by turning with our spoons. 







I'm pretty sure this isn't how the typical family starts their day out, but it was nothing out of the ordinary for us.

Monday, March 14, 2011

It's been a good weekend

It's been a busy weekend.  Starting early Saturday morning, we headed out to find a pair of bald eagles I had spotted earlier in the week on my drive to work.  With a bagged breakfast of bagels, OJ, and bananas, the happy little crew of kiddos and parents headed out towards Indian State Lake with high hopes of spotting the birds.  Unfortunately, it was windy and they were shy.  No go on the eagles.  We did, however, find a wood duck, geese a plenty, song birds, and a pair of red-tailed hawks.  I could not help but smile as I watched my kiddos eagerly sporting their binoculars in hopes of catching a sight of the bald eagles.  Even Squeaks, staring with the binoculars backwards, was mimicking what she saw the older kiddos do and would eagerly say "biwd, biwd" any time she saw a creature take flight. On the way home, there was eager talks about a scouting expedition for next weekend, maybe even earlier in the morning.

Before 8:30 a.m. even hit, we were back home.  Beans and I headed out with our neighbors to do some fabric shopping and some lunching.  Our neighbor's daughter has the same sort of passion for fabric stores that Beans and I do - ooh the colors, prints and patterns!  The zippers, binding, ribbons, egad!  It just makes me excited typing about it!  Beans and I then spent the rest of the day sitting at the kitchen table sewing and making a mess of thread and fabric scraps.  We were a frenzy of sewing production.  I turned out new summer pj pants for all kiddos, finished a few projects that have been lying around for awhile, and got closer to finishing a few project that have been lying around for much too long.  Saturday ended early in preparation for Daylight Savings and all the kiddos were asleep by 7 p.m., with the big daddy and I close behind.

Then came today.  Oh today, what a day it was!  For starters, I am starting to get Smoosh's cold or whatever gunk he has had sitting in his chest this past week, but we trudged forward with the day nonetheless.  We started out with church and, I hate to admit it, I got a good nap in on my gorgeous husband's shoulder.  AGH!  I often wonder how people can fall asleep in church and today I got my answer; be sick, very sick, and lean toward the man you love and PRESTO.  Sleep comes!

After church, we went looking at a farm.  Yes, a farm.  I feel like a farm has been a normal part of my dreams and conversation since I was old enough to realize that anyone could own a farm, not just farmers who were born on farms.  I just recently connected with my super good friend from high school and told her about wanting a farm.  To her, no big surprise "you've always wanted a farm."  Ahhh yes, I forgot how repetitive my dreaming out loud has been for years.  At times, the farm bug bites me really hard.  Typically, its during this time frame of the year; Smoosh and I have sown seeds in the basement "grow room" for our garden, our chickens have started lying a few more eggs because of the sunlight, and the book list from the library starts to include more and more titles such as "The Hobby Farm Guide," "How to Turn Your Farm into Profit," and "You Can Farm."  My backyard looks awfully small in comparison to such big dreams.  Ahhh...a farm.  So, we have been looking for one, off and on over the past few years.  Sometimes we get as  far as we did today; we actually find one that we think we could live on.  We think we can make it work.  And the price makes it just right to load up the family and go look at it.  And, oh my goodness, the land was beautiful.  The barn was old, full of holes, and in need of lots of elbow grease, but we could just hear the tree swallows in the rafters, the barn owl at night, and more importantly the happy sounds of animals living inside.  Same for the one-car garage and remains of the chicken coop, lots of potential with a lot of work.  And Joe and I kept thinking, we could fix that, we could do that, that's not a deal breaker.  But then we learned its not zoned for animals.  What is a farm without animals?  Not a farm.  That is what it is.  Dealbreaker #1.  Dealbreaker #2 was the house itself; small and unwisely planned out, we could not imagine how we would all fit in there, dogs, fish, lizard, toads, rabbits, and oh yes, I guess the children would need to be squeezed in there as well.  Even if we did build on additions, the house had less workable potential than the buildings.  Oh well, dear little not-farm, I hope you make some other family with less children and no animals happy.



Our next stop was the St. Patrick's Day Parade around Capitol Square in Madison (after a quick dash to Wal-Mart to get white-bottomed shoes for the little parade lady, a.k.a. Beans).  With wig on top of the her head, she pranced off and joined the other little Irish dancers.  The other kiddos did a good job of warming the curb and grabbing candy waiting for Bean's appearance.

Before...
...after!  Poof!


Little flock of blond-feathered bluebirds

An unfortunate accident with Squeaks had both her and I rushing towards Walgreens for diapers, mens' socks, and an upside down T-shirt for impromptu leg coverings and warmth after a very, very wet and soggy diaper.  The timing was horrid as I watched on tiptoe near the counter, eagerly trying to peer out the store window while keeping Squeaks from opening all the candy in the aisle, as the flock of bouncing curls doned in blue sweatshirts pranced their way past us.  Sigh.  At least the big daddy and brothers got to see her!

Its not a parade until a pink bunny comes around singing Irish diddies.
Professional curb warmers.  Note the upside down T on the Squeaks and men socks.  I think she is styling.


And, wait, there was still more to our day!  We headed to Monona Terrace for the CSA open house.  I am all about the CSA and supporting local agriculture, having been a happy customer of a local farm for a year or so.  My passion about soulful, healthy eating is helping out the above-mentioned desire to own a farm.  With the motivation of "scouting the competition," we headed to the open house to see what other farms were out there and if indeed there was enough need that I could make a profit from a hobby farm.  Teresa, the Egg and Poultry farmer, I like the ring of it.  But, alas, that dang chest cold and fever got the best of me and I looked with weary eyes at the big guy to give the signal it was time to go.  I did not get to ask all the questions I wanted or look at all the farms, but, that's OK.  All in good time.

On our way home, the best part of the day (so hard to pick from such a fantastic day!) happened.  We were about to cross the street when we ran into a bagpiper.  What?!?!?  Yes, I do love Madison.  Where else does a bagpiper still linger around the streets of the capitol hours after the parade?  Even better than running into him was the little wigged, smiley girl next to us who charmed a crowd of passerbys when the bagpiper asked if she would dance while he played. "Jig or reel?"  "Jig please."  Oh how I love me some Beans.  And - yes - I got video of it:)



In the background, you can hear someone honking at Beans (of course it was at Beans, I mean - duh!) but then you get to hear the honking of the chant "This is What Democracy Looks Like" as a few cars just drove around the capitol.  For the most part, protesting took a quiet back seat to the parade so all could enjoy a family time.  No matter what side of the issue one stands on, it is incredibly moving to see people freely speaking their minds about their government.  I felt very fortunate to be living through such a piece of history and have my kids there to witness it as well.  I can only hope it leaves some sort of impression on them with how free we really are here.  I had some spirited discussions with Otter about politics but once home, he disappeared to play Zombie hunt with a friend.  Apparently, mom and politics is not quite as cool as Zombie hunting in the backyard.  I did need some sleep and curled up with Smoosh for a little schnappers.  The day ended with big daddy grilling a delicious meal, sharing a fine glass of wine with the neighbor (because alcohol will help kill those germs invading my chest), and early bed times for everyone for the second night running.  Life is good.